this is a good poem to check outi see the war, the stress and the poor,and always chance of danger at the door,our own are divided left and right,some in the middle, and extremes out of sight, work invaded by alien class,and more of a voice than home grown grass,we struggle to see a light from above, but dark forces have blinded the dove,our work,no pride and families collide secrets in the governing place, and the poor and middle are in the same race. questions and answers, too many to go round and speakers reuse the their political sound, we can stay the same,then ask whose to blame, a time to come, will delete the same, make way for leaders to bring back pride , our people will be as one a national pride with more to come, we wont have to ask where its coming from, united will be, from land and beyond the sea, so look be there. involve your one, for around the corner is a time to come.
www.originalpoetry.com/a-time-to-come
time: the system of those sequential relations that any event has to any other, as past, present, or future; indefinite and continuous duration regarded as that in which events succeed one another
Never ever fight!
Disagreements can sometimes be healthy in a relationship if done once in a while. Never allow fighting to eat away your relationship. In fighting, both parties lose the fight. No one ever wins.
Fighting can be damaging. It involves emotions. When emotions get involved, you may say harmful things that you really dont mean to say, and unfortunately whats done can never be taken back.
As much as possible, avoid getting into a heated argument. A fight can easily damage a marital relationship. The fight may start over an unimportant matter and before you both know it, it soon escalates into an exchange of offensive words.
Always remember the Law of Harvest. Dont continue to sow seeds of you always or you never into your relationship so that you will not reap it. Whatever you focus on and hear over and over again becomes a reality.
Avoid using the following words:
You did it again!
When will you learn?
I cant believe this. I married someone whos not capable of doing things right.
This is such a mess!
Don’t pull out the big gun when argument progresses and emotions rise to the surface for the sake of winning. Don’t try to bring in the past. Let bygones be bygones forever. Stay out of it. Leave it where it belongs. Bringing up the past in an argument can add fuel to the fire. Focus only on the present situation no matter how difficult it is.
In a fight no one really wins because both parties lose the game. This affects closeness of the husband and wife. Gaps arise because of the fight. Your spouse will feel awkward when you are around after the fight. Fighting is really immature regardless of how old you are or how long you have been married. It is only natural for children but not for adults.
Treat your spouse the treatment he or she deserves. Be careful with the words that you use.
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You have your band (around your finger), now it’s time to find your Wedding disc jockey. You search the internet for “Wedding disc jockey” and come up with a list of potential wedding disc jockey choices. Now, how do you wade through the rheteroric “Connecticut’s Most Requested DJ”, “The DJ of Choice”, “CT DJ of the Year” and figure out who is going to make your reception a raving success v. a floundering mess.
Here are some things to keep in mind as you look for your Wedding disc jockey:
Check out their website. If it is poorly designed, lacks real information or just doesn’t appeal to your style - then they are probably not the right choice as your Wedding disc jockey. You should discount any DJ that DOES NOT HAVE A WEBSITE. If they can’t be bothered to setup a website, then they probably can’t be bothered with the details of your wedding.
Look for pricing. If they do not list pricing on their website - they might be trying to hide something. Many Wedding disc jockeys will quote different pricing from one client to the next. This is a sign of a poorly run business or of hidden charges that might haunt you down the line. Your Wedding disc jockey should be upfront with their pricing and it should be printed/posted on their website and in the literature they mail you.
If you have specific music tastes - ask your Wedding disc jockey to show you a list with that style music on it. Too many Wedding disc jockeys have promised to cater to client’s musical tastes and then showed up on the day of the wedding to just play the same tired wedding music that you hear at every Wedding reception.
Ask to see photo’s of their equipment and setup. If they have large self-promoting signs as part of their setup - stay clear of this. What right does a Wedding disc jockey have in promoting themselves at YOUR wedding?
Ask your disc jockey how much money they have invested in the equipment that they bring and setup at a typical wedding. At a recent Connecticut bridal show, one Wedding disc jockey boasted about his new disc jockey setup. The main system was worth less than $500. A quality wireless microphone is worth more than $500 alone! If they have less than $5,000 in equipment (not including music value or backup equipment value) - they are entry level wedding entertainment at best. Quality Wedding disc jockey equipment comes at a cost. Many professional Wedding disc jockeys will have over $10,000 invested in their main system alone.
The bottom line - if your Wedding disc jockey choice gives you any concern with regards to their professionalism, they you should keep shopping for your Wedding disc jockey elsewhere. The difference between a $750 Wedding disc jockey and a quality $1500 Wedding disc jockey could mean the difference between guests gazing at their watches soon after dinner or your family & friends up and dancing the night away at your Wedding reception.
Rob Alberti
Professional Wedding Disc Jockey since 1983
After Hours DJ Service - MA/CT/RI Regions
http://www.afterhoursdj.net
There are many kinds of anniversary gifts on the market today. In fact it is a big business bringing millions of dollars each year. Yet despite the wide range and availability of anniversary gifts on the market many spouses and loved ones still have problems deciding which kind of gifts to get that will perfectly suit their partners.
If you have this same problem take the time to sit down and think about your partner’s favorite hobbies and tasks or the things that cause them problems and see if you can come up with ways to make their lives better. A basket of foot lotions, scrubs and creams may not seem all that romantic, but throw in unlimited foot massages and pedicures and your partner will delight in the special treatment.
If you still can’t think of anything that suits your partner, or if your partner all ready seems to have everything one could want go ahead and get them something absolutely frivolous. They probably wouldn’t purchase any such items for themselves so it’s up to you to buy the fun stuff for them. New golf clubs, antique stemware or a really silky pair of pajamas can go a long way in the relationship department.
However if you still cannot think of anything good why not fall back on traditional gifts assigned to each of the anniversary years. The first year is paper, the second glass and so on. As the partnership last longer and grows stronger the content of the gifts becomes more and more valuable. If this is the first anniversary get them something on paper. How about a pair of tickets to their favorite concert or movie or sports event? On the second year you could take them to an artist’s glass foundry and watch them create a beautiful piece of artwork for your beloved.
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In love many of us have a picture of somebody ideal. We also have some expectations, rather a lot of expectations from our lover. Behavior, upkeep, dressing style, speaking style, hobbies, looks and many such character traits that are personal may get dictated by one lover to another.
This watch does not suit you. Why do you walk with such swagger? it does not look good? Why are you spending so much time talking on telephone? When will you improve your housekeeping? Please improve your dress sense. Look at others, how well they keep themselves. A lover can have his/her own idea about the beloved and try to mould the beloved accordingly. They rob the freedom from their lover. Is that love? Will this be loved and liked by the partner? Will this not affect the relationship?
You fell in love with an individual with many pluses and many minuses. After knowing all of them, you decided to build a relationship. After developing the relationship, you want your lover to change in many ways. Is that not breaking the unspoken promises? By demanding changes, we make our lover feel inferior. By demanding changes, we irritate our lover. We bring down the quality of love. How can you expect to be loved by someone who is getting regular instructions of change from you? You cannot expect love. But many of us do this consciously or unconsciously. We kill the beauty of love by this.
All of us have their freedom to be what they are. We should leave them as they are and focus only on love and relationship. That will help us live a fruitful life that is pleasant.
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